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Thursday, October 18, 2007

Create A Winning Profile

When you join FaithMate, you will have to create a personal profile that reflects what you are like and what you are looking for. You have only a few paragraphs to do this, so you should make every word should count.

Here’s some advice on how to create the best personal profile.

Above all be both Honest and Modest.

Honesty: initial impressions do count! If you start of by being deceptive or lying to someone about yourself and the other person finds out early on, then they will have formed a bad impression of you immediately. Stopping any chance you might have had of forming a long and meaningful relationship… before it ever had a chance.

Or worse, they find out later once the relationship is starting to blossom then you will have undermined the relationship and have to unwind the lies.

The point is that it is simply not worth telling lies or deceiving a potential partner about yourself. The truth almost always comes out sooner or later and then lack of trust replaces the closeness you once had. Recovering from the deception is almost impossible and leads to the other party questioning everything you say or do.

Be honest and truthful right at the beginning and you will have a rock solid foundation on which to build a faithful, long-term relationship!

Modesty: I can’t think of anyone that likes or admires a braggart. Arrogance and big-headiness can be signs of immaturity, character-flaws, lack of confidence, insecurity and many other things as well. Virtually all women will avoid men who constantly boast!

You have a right to be proud of our achievements in life, and you should share our success with others. But to avoid looking like your bragging or boasting do it in a way that is subtle and over a period of time.

Boasting and bragging never ever works. In fact it has the opposite effect! Being modest always works best!

When you create your profile and email any potential partners keep Honesty and Modesty in mind and you won’t fail! Judge other people's profiles and emails the same way and you will also have an insight into what they are like!









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